Things that are alive grow. Dead things don’t.
If you are alive in Christ, then you are also growing in Him and in your Christian walk. What does that growth look like and how do you make sure you stay on the path of a growing Christian? Here are some suggestions to look for and to practice.
1. Spiritual disciplines, like praying, reading scripture, and going to church, become less of a chore and more enjoyable.
All of a sudden you have to miss church one week and you feel a huge hole in your week. You start to get this discontented feeling and you realize it is because you haven’t prayed in a few days or read scripture all week. These kinds of feelings are a sign that you are growing in your faith. God gave us these things to help sustain us in the Christian life and the closer a relationship we have with Him, the more we crave these things. We really begin to enjoy our time in God’s word or talking with Him. Without it, it would almost be like starving.
2. You are finding people you feel compelled to share the Gospel with.
Word of mouth has always been one of the best forms of advertisement. When something good happens to people, they want to talk about it. The same is true with God. If you are growing toward Him and seeing your life transformed, you are going to want to share it not only with other Christians, but especially with those who don’t have a relationship with Him. You won’t be able to keep your mouth shut about Jesus.
3. You are building a network of intimate Christian relationships.
You quickly find that your relationships with other Christians is different than your relationships with non-believers. Most guys wouldn’t go up to their non-believer friend and say, “I think I’m addicted to porn. Will you help keep me accountable as I struggle through this?” As we walk with Christ, though, we realize that we can’t do this life alone. Our Christian friends understand that fire that burns inside of us and know how hard it is to be a Christian in our crazy world. As you let go of pride and trust issues in your life, you will find more and more people who you can open up to and share life with.
4. You find yourself going to God more and more when you are in a crisis.
Even as a mature believer, I find myself sometimes going to God only after nothing else has worked. We all do that from time to time and when we call on God and He answers our prayer, we feel like a moron for not going to Him sooner. But overall, as you grow as a Christian, you should find yourself going to God sooner and more often. It comes with calling on Him and seeing Him work over and over. Once you begin to realize how much He does hear us and care for us, you will feel more comfortable turning to Him.
5. Your heart becomes burdened.
Asking to see people and the world like God sees them is a great prayer, but be prepared for feeling a heavy burden for what you see. As your sight becomes more like that of Jesus, you will begin to notice the poor on the streets or the news reports about kids in Africa. You will begin to see injustice and you will crave Godly justice in your life. I’ve always had a heavy heart for teenagers who don’t come from homes where they have anyone they can talk to. But since coming to Jesus, I’ve developed a heart for the elderly and for seeing women become all that God made them to be, even though in my life before coming to Jesus, old people scared me and in college, I was the anti-feminist.
6. You become less attached to material things.
As you start to see the world with eternal eyes, accumulation of wealth and possessions seems more and more fruitless. Even if you still have a drive for these things, it often changes into working for things to be used in God’s Kingdom. You buy a bigger house not so much for the status as you do because now you have extra bedrooms where people could stay or you could care for a foster child. You realize that the things that matter can’t be touched with you hands, only your heart.
7. You begin to serve instead of being the one who is served.
When you first come to Christ, you need people to talk to about what you are going through and to help you learn what the Gospel and Jesus is all about. You rely on different ministries to help guide your family or to help you get closer to Jesus. As you begin to grow, instead of being the consumer and consuming all the different ministries, you become a producer and begin to help out or even start your own ministries. As you grow closer to Jesus, it is natural to want to serve more and more.
8. You start to see yourself as a really awful person.
This one sounds really miserable, but it actually is really freeing. Most people who are Christians would consider themselves pretty good people. But as you begin to learn God’s nature and see how much our broken world troubles Him, you begin to see the weaknesses in your own life and see how far you are from where God wants you to be. Just like the old adage about the more you learn the more you realize how little you know, the more we follow God, the more we realize how far away from Him we are.
9. You become more humble.
Even though seeing how awful we are sets us up for being more humble, there is more to it than that. Yes, part of it is realizing, as the apostle Paul said, that we are the worst among sinners. But there also is a component of lifting others above yourself. As we grow toward Christ, we realize how little other people’s opinions of us matter and we are freer to encourage and compliment other people because we no longer feel like we need to be the best person in the room. When we become more humble, we also find it easier to forgive others and to accept forgiveness ourselves.
Think back on your walk with Christ. What were some signs that you recognized that showed you were growing in your faith?